Voices: The View from the Inside – Growing Up in Foster Care with Mark Hennessy

What’s it really like to grow up in foster care? In this episode of 'Voices – The Origins Foster Care Podcast', Mark Hennessy reflects on the moments that shaped him – and the people who made him feel safe, seen, and truly at home.

What does foster care feel like from the child's perspective? It’s a question few can answer – and even fewer with the clarity and compassion of Mark Hennessy. In our latest episode of Voices – The Origins Foster Care Podcast, Mark shares his story of growing up in care in Ireland, reflecting on the realities, challenges, and lasting impact of his experience.

This conversation is a rare window into the emotional world of a child in care – the uncertainty, the need for belonging, and the profound effect of being truly seen and supported. Mark’s story is not just a powerful personal account – it’s a guide for foster carers and professionals alike, reminding us what young people in care need most.

From Uncertainty to Stability

Mark’s early experiences in the care system were marked by upheaval and transition. He speaks candidly about the initial shock of entering care – the confusion, the loss of control, and the emotional toll of not having a say in your own life.

I wouldn't be where I am now. I wouldn't be a social care worker. I wouldn't be a qualified social worker if it weren't for them.

But what stands out most is his journey toward stability. Mark eventually found a long-term foster placement with carers who gave him something irreplaceable: consistency. That safe, reliable foundation enabled him to thrive – to pursue education, achieve a Master’s degree, and build a life full of meaning and contribution.

What Children in Care Need Most

Throughout the episode, Mark highlights several key insights for those involved in fostering:

  • The Power of Long-Term Placements: A consistent home isn’t just helpful – it’s transformational.
  • The Role of Siblings: Mark speaks movingly about the steadying influence of his brother, showing how sibling bonds can be an anchor in turbulent times.
  • Education & Identity: He reflects on the challenges of navigating school while balancing the invisible weight of being in care.
  • Consistency in Adults: Whether carers or professionals, reliable, caring adults shape a young person’s self-worth and long-term outcomes.

This is an essential listen for anyone in the world of foster care – whether you’re just starting to consider it or have years of experience. Mark’s perspective as a care-experienced adult reminds us that fostering isn’t about fixing or rescuing. It’s about walking alongside, offering stability, and believing in a child’s potential.

Mark’s journey shows that fostering works – when it’s done with commitment, care, and community.

You can listen to Voices – The Origins Foster Care Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and be sure to follow the show if you like what you hear and help others discover it.

If you’re moved by Mark’s story, please share it with someone who might be considering fostering – and leave us a review to help others find these vital conversations. You can learn more about fostering with Origins Foster Care and take your first steps:

→ Learn more about the supports Origins provides every foster carer

→ Explore our Become a Foster Carer page to see how you can get started fostering

→ Join one of our upcoming online Fostering Info Sessions

→ Or Apply Online to Become a Foster Carer if you're ready to take the next step

A portrait photo of Eithne Larkin, a team member at Origins Foster Care smiling and looking at the camera.
Written by:
Eithne LarkinEithne Larkin
December 3, 2025
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